Day 140 – Tuesday, July 15, 2025

One Year Journey Through the New Testament

1 Corinthians 7

Welcome to our journey through the New Testament!

Principles of Marriage

1 Now concerning the things of which you wrote to me:

It is good for a man not to touch a woman. ² Nevertheless, because of sexual immorality, let each man have his own wife, and let each woman have her own husband. ³ Let the husband render to his wife the affection due her, and likewise also the wife to her husband. ⁴ The wife does not have authority over her own body, but the husband does. And likewise the husband does not have authority over his own body, but the wife does. ⁵ Do not deprive one another except with consent for a time, that you may give yourselves to fasting and prayer; and come together again so that Satan does not tempt you because of your lack of self-control. ⁶ But I say this as a concession, not as a commandment. ⁷ For I wish that all men were even as I myself. But each one has his own gift from God, one in this manner and another in that.

⁸ But I say to the unmarried and to the widows: It is good for them if they remain even as I am; ⁹ but if they cannot exercise self-control, let them marry. For it is better to marry than to burn with passion. 

(1 Corinthians 7:1–9, NKJV)

Points to Ponder:

• This chapter primarily talks about marriage and sexual relationships. Paul opens the chapter with a call to celibacy, or a life without sex.
• However, Paul realizes the difficulty this may present to some (most) men and allow that each man can choose to have his own wife.
• He insists that if you are to be married, that you should engage in a healthy, mutually beneficial physical relationship with your spouse.
• He speaks of the concept that an individual does not have the authority to give their bodies to someone other than his or her spouse, but only to his or her spouse.
• Paul instructs husbands and wives not to use sex as a weapon or for manipulation, but only to deny physical intimacy for a period of fasting. Do not give Satan an opportunity to tempt you or your spouse because of your abstinence.
• Paul admits that this allowance for marriage is a concession in his mind. Some cannot handle celibacy. Therefore, they should marry rather than burn in sinful, single passion.

Keep Your Marriage Vows

¹⁰ Now to the married I command, yet not I but the Lord: A wife is not to depart from her husband. ¹¹ But even if she does depart, let her remain unmarried or be reconciled to her husband. And a husband is not to divorce his wife.

¹² But to the rest I, not the Lord, say: If any brother has a wife who does not believe, and she is willing to live with him, let him not divorce her. ¹³ And a woman who has a husband who does not believe, if he is willing to live with her, let her not divorce him. ¹⁴ For the unbelieving husband is sanctified by the wife, and the unbelieving wife is sanctified by the husband; otherwise your children would be unclean, but now they are holy. ¹⁵ But if the unbeliever departs, let him depart; a brother or a sister is not under bondage in such cases. But God has called us to peace. ¹⁶ For how do you know, O wife, whether you will save your husband? Or how do you know, O husband, whether you will save your wife? 

(1 Corinthians 7:10–16, NKJV)

Points to Ponder:

• Paul then further discussed the sanctity of marriage. Do not divorce, but stay in your marriage.
• Even if you spouse is unsaved, if they desire to live with you, stay together. Your salvation can help your children grow up in a Christian environment and be blessed. But if the unbelieving spouse leaves you or abandons you, you are not bound to this relationship.
• The hope is that you will lease your unbelieving spouse to salvation through your testimony and your example.

Live as You are Called

¹⁷ But as God has distributed to each one, as the Lord has called each one, so let him walk. And so I ordain in all the churches. ¹⁸ Was anyone called while circumcised? Let him not become uncircumcised. Was anyone called while uncircumcised? Let him not be circumcised. ¹⁹ Circumcision is nothing and uncircumcision is nothing, but keeping the commandments of God is what matters. ²⁰ Let each one remain in the same calling in which he was called. ²¹ Were you called while a slave? Do not be concerned about it; but if you can be made free, rather use it. ²² For he who is called in the Lord while a slave is the Lord’s freedman. Likewise he who is called while free is Christ’s slave. ²³ You were bought at a price; do not become slaves of men. ²⁴ Brethren, let each one remain with God in that state in which he was called. 

(1 Corinthians 7:17–24, NKJV)

Points to Ponder:

• Paul then expands the call for contentment.
• He says that anyone who was circumcised should not try to become uncircumcised. While this refers to a physical change that really cannot be reversed, Paul could be talking about your being a Jew. Be content, but serve Jesus.
• He also speaks of one who is a slave or indentured servant. He says that you should find a way to be content, even in your servitude.
• He makes provision for someone to buy out their time as a slave if that opportunity is available, but tells them to do their best and serve well if they are enslaved
• Most slaves were either prisoners of war or else they were “slaves” by a business agreement or so satisfy a debt. This second type of slave was temporary or for a set amount of time until the obligation was satisfied, either by service or by payout.
• Paul then turns the tables, stating that those who are saved while slaves are then spiritually free, while those saved while free become the slaves of Christ.
• Believers were bought with a price. Do not become slaves to earthly masters, but serve God in whatever state in which you may find yourself.

To the Unmarried and Widows

²⁵ Now concerning virgins: I have no commandment from the Lord; yet I give judgment as one whom the Lord in His mercy has made trustworthy. ²⁶ I suppose therefore that this is good because of the present distress—that it is good for a man to remain as he is: ²⁷ Are you bound to a wife? Do not seek to be loosed. Are you loosed from a wife? Do not seek a wife. ²⁸ But even if you do marry, you have not sinned; and if a virgin marries, she has not sinned. Nevertheless such will have trouble in the flesh, but I would spare you.

²⁹ But this I say, brethren, the time is short, so that from now on even those who have wives should be as though they had none, ³⁰ those who weep as though they did not weep, those who rejoice as though they did not rejoice, those who buy as though they did not possess, ³¹ and those who use this world as not misusing it. For the form of this world is passing away.

³² But I want you to be without care. He who is unmarried cares for the things of the Lord—how he may please the Lord. ³³ But he who is married cares about the things of the world—how he may please his wife. ³⁴ There is a difference between a wife and a virgin. The unmarried woman cares about the things of the Lord, that she may be holy both in body and in spirit. But she who is married cares about the things of the world—how she may please her husband. ³⁵ And this I say for your own profit, not that I may put a leash on you, but for what is proper, and that you may serve the Lord without distraction.

³⁶ But if any man thinks he is behaving improperly toward his virgin, if she is past the flower of youth, and thus it must be, let him do what he wishes. He does not sin; let them marry. ³⁷ Nevertheless he who stands steadfast in his heart, having no necessity, but has power over his own will, and has so determined in his heart that he will keep his virgin, does well. ³⁸ So then he who gives her in marriage does well, but he who does not give her in marriage does better.

³⁹ A wife is bound by law as long as her husband lives; but if her husband dies, she is at liberty to be married to whom she wishes, only in the Lord. ⁴⁰ But she is happier if she remains as she is, according to my judgment—and I think I also have the Spirit of God. 

(1 Corinthians 7:25–40, NKJV)

Points to Ponder:

• Paul offers the disclaimer that the next thoughts may just be hid opinion.
• First, he tells virgins it would be best for them to remain virgins.
• He tells the single, the married, and the divorced to remain as they are and do not seek change. However, if a virgin does marry, they do not sin, they just bring more trouble upon themselves.
• He dives deeper to say that even those who are married should serve the Lord as if they are not, to give Him their all.
• One who is unmarried can give God’s will all their attention and care. Those who are married must try to make his or her spouse happy. Paul wants people to serve God without distraction.
• However, if someone does get marry, they do not sin. However, celibacy is better.
• He instructs the married that they are bound to their spouses as long as their spouse shall live. The death of a spouse frees one to remarry, but even then they would be better off staying single.
• While this chapter is couched in the framework of Paul’s opinion on celibacy, it is important to note that while the principles of Paul are valuable (less distraction, complete dedication to the Lord’s calling and work), it is not a mandate. God does allow for marriage, and some are holier married than celibate.

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All Scriptures from New King James Version unless otherwise noted.

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